Women’s History Month: How Jayda Dookie is changing the game 

Women’s History Month: How Jayda Dookie is changing the game 

Jayda Dookie didn’t quite know what she was getting into when her high school coach reached out about a caddying opportunity at Seminole Golf Club. 

Ranked the top course in Florida for the last 35 years by Golf Digest, the Club has a rich history of hosting the corporate elite along with a couple of high-profile events in the past. But Jayda was about to make her own history. When Jayda, a First Tee – Florida Gold Coast participant, signed on as caddy, she was unaware that she would become the first female caddy in the history of the storied club. As a freshman, she was also the youngest caddy in the yard when she took the job four years ago. 

“A lot of the caddies were excited to see a girl come and do this job, not only because you have to engage with a lot of important people, but it’s also a physical job,” she explained. “I quicky had to get out my shell. I had to make sure my players were comfortable, and I definitely only succeeded because of the mentors I had in the caddy yard.” 

She said planning ahead is an important part of caddying at Seminole: “First we have to forecaddie. We must get to the ball before the players do to get all the numbers like distance from the hole, wind speed and direction. At Seminole, we really place an emphasis on pace of play, and the only way we’re able to do that is if our caddies are two steps ahead of our players,” she said. 

Jayda said it was intimidating to start her job at Seminole, but now she loves it because of the network she’s forged. 

Women’s History Month: How Jayda Dookie is changing the game 

“I have learned so much through the other caddies and members,” she said. “Many are prominent CEOs and business leaders, and it’s good for me to watch how business deals are negotiated the golf course.” 

That’s especially true since Jayda plans to have a career in international business – even though she’ll be sad to leave Seminole when she attends college in the fall. “I’m definitely going to miss it, but I know there’s an invitation extended for me to come back because they’ve become my second family now,” she said. 

Jayda credits First Tee’s John Deere Drive Your Future Academy with helping her select her future career path. She attended the event in San Francisco last summer. “It was amazing to see girls from all over the country gather to learn about business and leadership and play golf,” she said. “We didn’t know each other at first but by the end we all felt like family.” 

Jayda said First Tee has not only given her lots of impactful opportunities – including a recent behind-the-scenes visit to The Honda Classic in Palm Beach Gardens – but also a supportive community. 

“I’m probably not going to remember all the stress and heartbreaks of different tournaments but I’m definitely going to remember the people and the family that has gathered around me thanks to golf.” 

Jayda was recently named Participant of the Year by First Tee – Florida Gold Coast. 

She credits the sport with teaching her discipline and giving her confidence and recommends golf for any girls who are looking for a new hobby. “I think they should definitely do it,” she said. “Golf is a sport you can play for life. Golf gives you a community and opportunities and people to lean on if you ever need help.” 

Obando on following his dreams: ‘Not giving up and going the extra mile pays off in the end’

Felipe Obando may now be studying at the Keiser University College of Golf. But it wasn’t always a given that the sport would play an important part in his life. 

Obando has long been a passionate artist, and in fifth grade, he won an art contest that not only awarded him tickets to The Honda Classic – and meet and greets with PGA TOUR players like Russel Henley – but also a lifetime membership to First Tee – Florida Gold Coast. 

It was the first time Obando was exposed to golf, and First Tee introduced him to the coaches who could become important mentors, he said.  

“I could go on all day long about the insane and incredible opportunities that have been given to me by the First Tee,” he said. But one thing stands out from his time in the organization: the values it instilled. 

“Responsibly, honesty, integrity … were all words we learned as kids going to the First Tee which helped pave the way for the rest of my life,” he said. 

During his time as a First Tee participant, Obando attended national events like the Leadership Series in partnership with PGA TOUR Superstore, he played at storied courses, including The Breakers and The Bears Club, and he volunteered to help younger kids learn the game. 

Obando was so passionate about the sport that he teamed up with seven other First Tee participants to create the First Tee – Palm Beaches Teen Golf Association, which has evolved into a thriving organization. 

Obando has had to overcome challenges to get where he is today. He was born with a malformed right hand and has developed a golf swing that compliments his disability.  

“Grabbing a cup, throwing a ball, flipping a coin. Those were all things I could do with my normal left hand. But what about a sport that involves your two hands gripping something? Golf was probably the most challenging sport I ever had to learn, and it took me lots of time and practice to be able to get good contact,” he said. 

“I would say the most important thing throughout this process was never giving up, even if it meant putting myself in uncomfortable situations. I always (and still do) finished holes even if I wasn’t playing my best and wanted to pick up,” he explained. “Overcoming challenges for me was difficult, and it still is to this day, but not giving up and going the extra mile pays off in the end.” 

Obando always knew he wanted to attend college, and now his goal has become a reality. He received a four-year scholarship to attend Keiser University College of Golf where’s he’s studying golf management.  

“When it comes to post graduation, all I know is that I want to be involved in the best industry there is, the golf industry, whether it’s a head pro at a club, a coach, working for a company and many more of the thousands of careers there are in the golf world,” he said. 

He recently received his WR4GD pass, which makes him eligible to compete in tournaments like the USGA’s second U.S. Adaptive Open at Pinehurst this summer. Obando said he’s excited for what the future holds. 

“I have been practicing hard, focusing on my classes, focusing on my game and staying healthy,” he said. 

Coach Kelly on Building a Positive Self-Identity

Louis Kelly, First Tee – Greater Philadelphia alumni and now coach, has been with the chapter for longer than he can remember. Coach Kelly started when he was just 13 years old, graduating through the program in 2010.

Growing up with the First Tee – Greater Philadelphia chapter, Coach Kelly had been so positively impacted as a participant that he thought the only thing he could do was give back by returning to be a coach at the chapter in 2017.

“I love First Tee and I’ve been around it a long time now. Coaching my kids and being with influential people outside in the business world makes me reflect that I just love being able to bring a smile to people’s faces,” said Coach Kelly.

Coach Kelly focuses primarily on the in-school curriculum, along with coaching golf lessons for the participants to help them make their high school golf team. From there, Coach Kelly wishes to see his kids in the program graduate and go on to college where they can play for collegiate teams.  

In addition to the curriculum and golf lessons, coaches like Coach Kelly serve as a mentor for the community, helping to support participants along their educational and golf journey. Coach Kelly focuses on building a positive self-identity as a core characteristic in life.

“The mind believes in whatever you say about yourself, so we need to make it a good one,” said Coach Kelly.

“We need community, and as you know, First Tee has allowed young people to come in a safe space and be around positive coaches and other young people to build healthy habits and life skills.”

Jose Perez Makes an Impact at First Tee – Monterey County

Jose Perez grew up in Salinas, California where his family loved watching different professional sports, but primarily soccer because of their Hispanic heritage. It wasn’t until Jose was 8 years old when he was first introduced to the sport of golf – and instantly he fell in love. “In other sports, you have to rely on other people. With golf, you only have to rely on yourself and that’s why I love the game,” said Jose.

Jose became a participant at First Tee – Monterey County after being introduced to the game, loving the programs he took part in. So much so, after graduating from the program, he became a First Tee coach in 2013. “Monterey County had a summer program which I applied to that summer. I took my first class and loved it. First Tee – Monterey County has helped me a lot in my career. The coaches I had gave their best at everything and gave me values and skills I could use in my life. The least I could do is give back,” said Jose.

While coaching at First Tee – Monterey County, Jose is also studying to get his degree in accounting. Once he completes his bachelor’s degree, he will apply to get his master’s degree and become a CPA. One day, Jose hopes to do accounting for businesses all over California and take over his dad’s pallet business.

“If there’s anything I could teach my participants, it’s to be patient, be positive and always be willing to ask for help.”

Game Changing Alumni

For over 25 years, we’ve used golf to teach lessons about life. We’ve spun the unexpected challenges on the fairway to coach kids about adversity in the everyday. It’s not just a game, its game-changing.

Our alumni are a reflection of that commitment we made to building game changers. Below are just a few of our exceptional alumni who are making a difference in the world because of the lessons learned at First Tee.

Marcus Freeman Pays it Forward

First Tee is celebrating its 25th anniversary this month, and over the years, it’s helped produce no shortage of game changers. 

One example is Marcus Freeman from First Tee – Greater Charlotte. He says the organization has helped him grow as a golfer and person. 

“Being a part of this community has helped me get through hard times. First Tee – Greater Charlotte was a safe place for me in 2020. During this time my grandfather was going through end stage pancreatic cancer and my family, like the world, was navigating COVID-19 and social distancing,” he says. 

The support he received from First Tee inspired Freeman to pay it forward. 

He completed more than 300 hours of volunteer work for First Tee in 2021. He collected more than 500 books for a First Tee book drive, and he’s a member of the chapter’s participant advisory council. Freeman has also volunteered for his swim team and tutored students in Japanese.

“An aspect of volunteer work that I enjoy is seeing the impact that giving to others can have,” he says. 

Freeman is one of 28 First Tee participants from across the country who’ll attend Innovators Forum this November in Dallas. The workshop empowers First Tee teens to develop a meaningful service project in their community focused on education, health or sustainability. Eight participants will be awarded scholarships totaling $32,000 after the event.

A junior at Palisades High School, Freeman is an accomplished violinist, and he won a medal for performing Japanese poems in 2019. Freeman aspires to study sports science in college. “I enjoy learning more about physical fitness and how the body works,” he says. Freeman spends his free time researching training tips and injury recovery. 

As he progresses as an athlete and student, Freeman says he’ll continue to use the lessons and qualities he’s learned at First Tee, including confidence. 

“When I first joined the program, I was a little shy when meeting new coaches, parents and other players. I spent time observing the instructors and how they interacted with all the different people coming and going. I saw them shake hands, make eye contact, smile and speak confidently,” he says.  

“I knew I wanted those skills as well. I pushed myself out of my comfort zone, and I started to apply what I observed to my own social skills. I practiced a strong handshake. I introduced myself to people I didn’t know, and I have met many interesting people, like professional golfer Davis Love III, all because I have improved in sharing my personality.” 

Learn more about Innovators Forum

Alumna Hannah Rens Reaches for the Stars

Lots of kids aspire to become astronauts but few go on to build careers in space exploration. That hasn’t stopped Hannah Rens from chasing her dreams into orbit. 

Alumna Hannah Rens Reaches for the Stars

The 24-year-old is a systems engineer for Boeing Space and Launch, working on Boeing’s Starliner, a commercial crew and cargo vehicle that will be transporting NASA astronauts to the international space station.  

“My ultimate career goal is to be chief engineer of a permanent human habitat on the moon,” says Rens, a former participant at First Tee – Siouxland and First Tee volunteer. “To achieve that goal, I need to develop advanced business skills, gain industry experience and further my engineering technical education.” 

That’s why she’s attending the First Tee Alumni Summit presented by Gallagher this November in Dallas. The event provides an opportunity for selected alumni to advance their career by building new skills while reconnecting with fellow alumni and chapter leaders. 

“I’m looking to learn more about working in a rapidly evolving industry, startups and founding your own business, and how to develop an effective personal brand,” she says. 

Alumna Hannah Rens Reaches for the Stars

Rens says her nine years in First Tee helped shape her future. “It provided me with a structured path to improving my golf game, peer and trusted mentors, and interpersonal and professional skills that have been essential in achieving my goals,” she says. 

While in First Tee, she was selected to attend the Leaders and Entrepreneurs Forum at Disney World. “Getting to meet other students from across the U.S. while listening and working with successful business owners and entrepreneurs was unlike any other experience I had in high school,” she says. “The business principles and goals I learned have stayed with me.” 

Alumna Hannah Rens Reaches for the Stars

A graduate of the University of Texas at Austin, Rens began her career with internships focused on aircraft maintenance and repair. As Starliner prepares to expand its service to additional sites in Earth’s orbit, Rens works on vehicle life span and sustainment. Ultimately, Starliner will become one of the first spacecraft with turnaround times closer to traditional air traffic. Talk about a Game Changer. 

Rens now serves as a mentor for high school and college students who want careers in the space industry, and she’s enrolled in an astronautical engineering master’s program at the University of Southern California focusing on human spaceflight. 

Rens still golfs, and she’s a certified open water and dry suit SCUBA diver. Learn more about the accomplishments of First Tee alumni

Importance of Empowering Youth with Community Programs in Colorado

First Tee gives opportunities for youth to not only get daily exercise and build skills but to also have an empowering outlet for their self-confidence and future. At the First Tee – Colorado Rocky Mountains, we offer a unique experience for Colorado youth that is focused on much more than just skill-building in golf. Through our community programs in Colorado, we are able to empower local youth of all ages.

What Does it Mean to ‘Empower’ Youth?

Youth empowerment is one of the most important factors in creating positive outcomes for individuals and communities. In fact, research suggests that empowering youth leads to better academic performance, health, economic success, and civic participation.

But what exactly does it mean to empower youth? And why do we need to engage them? Let’s dive into these questions a little further.

Good Educational Standards

Kids have great potential in their younger years and they must be given opportunities and support to realize that potential. This is why we must ensure that our schools provide quality education standards. In addition, we must give opportunities to those who come from low-income families. We must take care of our children and educate them properly. They must learn about themselves, their culture, and their environment. When kids receive relevant education in their lives, they’ll feel more empowered, capable, and ready to take on the world.

Young kids must be taught how to respect each other and live together peacefully. They must know what makes them happy and what they want out of life. Kids must be encouraged to dream big dreams and set goals. And they must be supported to achieve their full potential. Through a golf community program, Colorado youth can get the educational support and empowerment to effectively support them.

Empowering Youth for the Future

The world today is full of young people who are disenchanted with the status quo. The younger generations want to change – and they’re willing to make it happen themselves. But how do we help those individuals find their voices? How do we give them the tools they need to take control of their future?

At First Tee, we believe that education empowers youth and that without it, there is no hope. We see education as a tool for social transformation and a catalyst for economic growth. In fact, we think that education is what will enable us to realize the aspirations of our country’s youth.

Benefits of Youth Empowerment to Society

There are numerous benefits of youth empowerment to society. Youth empowerment is the process where a young person gets empowered to take charge of their life and make decisions about what they want to do in life. This gives younger individuals confidence and motivation to achieve goals.

In today’s world, there are lots of opportunities for youth to develop themselves; however, most younger generations don’t use them because of a lack of knowledge, skills, resources, etc. Youth empowerment helps in overcoming such problems.

Here are just a few of the many societal benefits of youth empowerment:

Youth empowerment leads to better performance in schools and colleges

Students can learn how to manage their time effectively, prioritize tasks, and complete assignments on time when they feel empowered and motivated. Young community programs, like sports clubs or leagues, can offer those benefits for your kids. They will also understand the value of education and strive hard to improve their grades. These qualities help students succeed in college and lead to good career prospects.

Youth empowerment improves physical health

Young people are encouraged to participate in sports activities, exercise regularly, eat healthy food, and sleep properly. All these factors contribute to improved mental and physical health.

Youth empowerment reduces crime rates

Most crimes committed by youths are related to drugs, alcohol, and/or gangs. By encouraging youths to pursue alternative careers and engage in productive activities like working, studying, volunteering, etc., cities can enjoy reduced crime rates.

Youth empowerment creates a positive impact on the environment

Young people are taught to recycle waste products, use public transportation, and practice sustainable living. In addition, they are encouraged to protect nature and wildlife. As a result, the environment becomes cleaner, greener, and healthier.

First Tee is Empowering Colorado Youth Through Community Programs.

Youth empowerment has so many benefits to the child and community as a whole. At the First Tee – Colorado Rocky Mountains, we offer an array of engaging, educational, and physically challenging youth golf programs. Through these initiatives, we have empowered kids, teens, and young adults to make the most of their lives through productive means.

Contact First Tee today to learn more about our community programs throughout Colorado.

Looking for Junior Golf Lessons in Colorado?

Golf is an amazing sport that offers tons of benefits for younger and older players alike. You can learn new skills, build new friendships, and get great exercise in the process. That’s why it’s a good idea to help kids and teens learn the sport while they’re young. Are you looking to sign up your children for junior golf lessons in Colorado? If yes, then you’ve come to the right place.

We’ll cover some of the ways that you can find the best program for your child and what you need to keep in mind when searching for youth instructors.

Finding the Best Junior Golf Lessons in Colorado For Your Child

Junior golf lessons are a great way to help your child improve their game and get them ready for high school or college golf. You will be able to see how quickly they progress as they learn new skills and techniques from an instructor who has experience teaching kids. From private instruction to group classes, there are plenty of options out there for junior golf. Here are some things to consider when searching for junior golf lessons in Colorado:

Age Groups

What is your child’s age? Some schools or community programs may only teach children up until about 14 years old, while others may go all the way through high school. The younger your child is, the less expensive it will be to take junior golf lessons.

Weekly Commitment

How many hours per week would you like your child to spend taking junior golf lessons? Most extra-curricular after-school programs will outline a set number of hours each week that your child needs to practice. Make sure that this number is enough to keep your child engaged and learning. And don’t forget to take into your schedule too. If the weekly commitment does not align with your schedule or your child’s needs, then you might need to look at other options.

Private Or Group?

Will your child prefer private lessons or group lessons? Private lessons allow your child to work on specific areas of your child’s game with an individualized lesson plan. Group lessons usually involve several students working together under the supervision of an experienced teacher. Both types of lessons are beneficial, but they each come with their own pros and cons.

Private lessons may be slightly more expensive, but your child receives more personalized instruction. Group lessons will likely be more affordable and may provide opportunities for socialization, but they may not receive as much attention in a group setting.

Already Playing?

Is your child already playing golf? If your child plays golf, they will likely be better suited for more advanced junior golf lessons. However, if your child doesn’t currently play golf, don’t worry! There are plenty of opportunities for non-golfers to join in on the fun. Many school programs and golf instructor groups offer junior golf clinics where your child can try out different clubs and equipment to get more familiar. They can even use these clinics as a chance to meet other players and build friendships.

Why Choose First Tee – Colorado Rocky Mountains?

As a non-profit organization, we aim to provide high-quality educational programs and golf skills instruction. We’ve structured our approach to golf instruction to empower younger players, teach them life-long skills, and embrace the sport.

We help children develop the strength of character they need to face life’s challenges. We integrate life skills curriculum into the game of golf to create learning experiences that build children’s confidence, resilience, and inner strength.

Throughout the years, First Tee has seen many successful students leave our program with skills and relationships that last a lifetime. You can read more about our student success stories on our stories page.

Get Started with First Tee – Colorado Rocky Mountains

Register your child today and get started with junior golf lessons in Colorado.

The Key to Setting Reachable Goals

Have you ever thought about your achievements in life? What were the dreams and ambitions that you wanted to work towards? How did you get there? At First Tee, these are the type of questions we propose to kids and teens to help them understand the process of attaining goals; but to reach their goal, they must first understand how goals are formulated.  

A goal is something that you want to do, be or have, but it’s not something that you can do, be or have right at this moment. It’s something you must work to get in the future, and you can apply that to any challenge in life. For example, if your child wants to achieve Honor Roll and receive all As and Bs in school this year, what would that require them to do? They would need to do well on tests and assignments. How would they accomplish that? Encourage them to take good notes, turn in their work on time, and study for their tests. 

For kids, having guidelines or tools can effectively help them identify their goals and make them feel comfortable about reaching them. At First Tee, we utilize four guidelines to do this. Talk to your child about the dreams they currently have and try these out for yourself. 

Four Guidelines for Setting a Reachable Goal: 

  • The goal is Positive: 
    • I want to achieve a passing score of 80% or higher vs. I don’t want to fail this test 
  • The goal is Important to You: 
    • The goal needs to be important to you, not to someone else. You should be able to explain why you want to achieve it and why it will make a difference for you. 
  • The goal is Specific: 
    • You want to know exactly what you’re working toward. 
  • The goal is Under your Control: 
    • Your efforts will allow you to achieve this goal vs. Something that is out of your control like becoming famous or winning the lottery. 

Goal setting is a strategy kids and teens will apply for the rest of their life. When we set our goals, we want to be very clear about them so that we have the best chance to achieve them. The key to remember is that goals come in all shapes and sizes. Just because it doesn’t work for someone else doesn’t mean that you can’t achieve it. Your kids will learn from both their achievements and setbacks, but as they begin to set personal goals, they will learn and grow in ways that you did not think possible. 

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